Email of the Day: The Married Man

The latest from OkStCupid: HE SAID: Hi! Would you ever consider getting together with a married man? SHE SAID: Never. Please don’t insult my integrity, morals and intelligence HE SAID (immediately): Umm…all I can say is you have a LOT to learn. Good luck to you. BACKGROUND (Taken from The Married Man’s Profile): I’ve been [...]

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When Honesty is The Hardest Thing

When it comes to human relations and communication, from friendships to romantic relationships, it is said that honesty is the best policy. And while I theoretically believe this to be true in most cases, in practice it has been much harder for me to live by. With my passive-aggressive and people-pleasing tendencies, I have often [...]

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11 Lessons in Love From 2011

I realize that it’s not even halfway through 2011, but I would like to impart 11 lessons from my love life (admittedly not the most healthy year of dating I’ve had) that I have learned thus far this year: 1. On dating sites, I have picked up on some interesting things along the way that [...]

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Up Next on the Stage…

Last night, I had a date. Or at least, I was supposed to go on one. It wasn’t with the V-Man who I’d basically written off weeks earlier—after all this time together, I was looking for a boyfriend at least every weekend, not every other weekend if I was lucky. When he suggested getting together [...]

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Things To Remember About Myself

My self-worth is not determined by: • My work (or ability to do it) • Whether my boss thinks of me as bringer in of “ratings” or as a human being—I know being really sick can’t compare to having a cute baby • Whether my “boyfriend” thinks I am a high enough priority to spend [...]

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