There are some breakups you can spot from a mile away. Petty arguments increase in frequency, seeming to stem from thin air. Phone calls that used to be daily become more sporadic and less involved. Thus, the careful observer suspects that something isn’t quite right and change is in the air. However, sometimes breakups can come abruptly and completely surprise you. Everything with your sweetheart seemed to be going perfectly, you thought, but suddenly you find yourself facing a single life once again. For those of us facing the latter, I am offering five tips for getting over a sudden breakup.